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ABORTION
COMPLICATION STATISTICS
Concern is growing over the number of unreported complications that
occur.
It has come to our attention,
working with women after abortion and hearing from others dealing
with women who have had abortions, that the limited reporting of
complications to the Abortion Supervisory Committee (ASC) fails to
fully show the picture of the extent of even the physical
complications afterwards.
We wrote to the ASC requesting information as follows:
"We provide post-abortion counselling to those who for whatever
reason feel adversely affected by their abortions.
Numbers of women who come through our
service had experienced complications from their abortions, many of
them past abortions. We have had other requests for information
about complications both from clients and the wider community.
We would appreciate knowing
a. What the current requirements and processes are for reporting
complications
b. What the statistics are in the main centres for numbers of
abortions and complications
c. How that compares with for example complications following live
births
If you are able to provide us with that information we would be most
grateful. Otherwise could you please direct us to where we might
obtain it and give contact details where possible."
The reply from the ASC dated 31/10/02:
".. The answers to your questions are as follows:
(a) When licensing an institution the Committee is required to take
into consideration the provisions of s.21(1)(c) of the
Contraception, Sterilisation and Abortion Act 1977 which provides as
follows:
"That there are, in the institution, adequate accommodation,
surgical and other facilities, and competent staff to provided
treatment and care of patients suffering complications arising while
they are awaiting, undergoing, or recuperating from an
abortion;..."
In addition the registered medical practitioner who performs the
abortion is required to report to the Committee any immediate
complications occurring with any particular abortion.
(b) The following are the details of the 61 immediate complications
reported for the calendar year 2000.
The information is supplied on a Regional basis rather than main
centres:
Northern 18
Midland 17
Central 16
Southern 10
Haemorrhage 18
Haemorrhage & perforation of the uterus 1
Perforation of the uterus 12
Retained placenta/tissue 26
Acutely retroverted uterus 1
Gross HPV appearance to cervix 1
Failed termination requiring second
procedure 2
The information for the calendar year 2001 will not be available
until the Committee presents its report to Parliament in a few weeks
time.
(c) The Committee does not have any information to compare abortion
complications with complications following live births. You should
make enquiries with the Ministry of Health, who may hold this
information."
On the surface, statistically, complications appear miniscule
considering the number of abortions for that year (approx 16,000).
But these statistics neither take into account problems women have
afterwards which are attended to by the GP or may require
(re)admission to hospital, nor possibly longer term associated
problems such as cervical incompetence with subsequent pregnancy and
labour complications & for a few infertility. It would be more
helpful to have an ongoing, long term independent study performed
throughout all the main centres, identifying and tracking
complications in order to obtain a more accurate picture of problems
afterwards.
Statistics provided by the ASC also fail to take into account the
emotional effects. We recently had a woman share that her experience
of distress following her abortion was so significant that she had
attempted suicide. Grief & depression and other psyhcological
sequelae may surface only later. We believe that we are currently
seeing very few of those who actually do experience problems
afterwards.
SYNOPSIS
OF
RECENT
POST-ABORTION RESEARCH
(by
Vincent M. Rue, Ph.D. Institute for Pregnancy Loss, Stratham,
New Hampshire)
Extensive
research has documented how traumatic stress can significantly
alter individuals’ lives.
Traumatic stressors are
strong predictors of post-traumatic stress disorder or PTSD
(Foy,
Osato, Houskempt & Neuman 1992).
While the prevalence of PTSD has been estimated to affect up
to 12% of the U.S. population
(Breslau,
Davis, Andreski & Peterson 1991)
,
limited research has examined the role of elective abortion as a
traumatic stressor causing symptoms of PTSD. Most trauma victims
encounter feelings of horror or terror at the time of the traumatic
episode. Bagarozzi has reported that women who came for
mental health treatment were in complete denial that they had
experienced an abortion and that indeed it was a traumatic and
horrific experience for them. ”This denial was seen as
a major contributing factor to the development of post traumatic
stress in these women”
(1993:67)
.
Clinical research findings highlighting the power of denial before,
during and after an abortion have also been reported by Torre-Bueno
(1996)
. As
a pro-choice advocate and long-time Planned Parenthood abortion
counselor, her assertion is all the more compelling: “I believe
passionately that I can be supportive of every woman’s right to
make her own pregnancy decisions, and still recognize the fact that
her decision may cause her tremendous suffering. While
many women do not have emotional or spiritual difficulty after an
abortion, I know from twenty years of experience working with women
before, during, and after abortions, that many women have more
emotional and spiritual pain after abortion than the current
research suggests.”
(1996:3)
In another clinical study, pro-choice psychotherapists De Puy and
Dovitch
(1997:13-14)
reported that 10% of women experience “severe emotional trauma”
following abortion. According to these
clinicians/researchers: “Many women acknowledge a feeling of
relief after their abortion, yet are understandably upset by facets
of the experience that they had never anticipated. Many
are distressed and unaware of the ways in which their choice has
changed their lives and, sometimes, the lives of those around them.” In
a study of 80 women in the U.S., Barnard
(1990)
used
standardized posttraumatic stress disorder (PTSD) instruments and
found: 3-5 years following the abortion, l8% of the sample met the
full diagnostic criteria for posttraumatic stress disorder (PTSD)
and 46% displayed high stress reactions to their
abortion. Her findings were not explained by religiosity
as 68% reported that at the time of the abortion they had little to
no religious involvement. Subsequently, similar findings were also
reported by Hanley et al.
(1992)
in a comparison study of women distressed postabortion which also
used standardized PTSD instruments and interviews. They
found: “Women who were distressed following an abortion scored
significantly higher than the non-distressed group on PTSD symptoms
of intrusion and avoidance.”
The investigators evaluated whether some women in outpatient mental
health treatment with a presenting problem of postabortion distress
met Diagnostic & Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders III
Revised (DSM-III-R) criteria for the posttraumatic stress disorder
(PTSD) categories of intrusion, avoidance, and
hyperarousal. One hundred and five women were
administered the SCID-PTSD module, the Impact of Event Scale, as
well as the Social Support Questionnaire and the Interview for
Recent Life Events, in addition to completing a semi-structured
interview.
The researchers concluded: “the data from this study are
suggestive that women can report abortion-related distress similar
to classic PTSD symptoms of intrusion, avoidance and hyperarousal
and that these symptoms can be present many years after the
abortion.”
Posttraumatic reexperiencing has also been documented in anniversary
reactions. In a small study conducted by Franco et al.
(1989:154)
,
30 out of 83 women reported experiencing anniversary reactions that
included intense emotional psychosomatic pain. They
noted: “Unresolved grief and preexisting dysphoria have been
suggested as increasing the likelihood of anniversary reactions.”
Another recent study compared two groups of 25 women who elected
abortion: those who identified themselves as distressed (D) and
those who reported more neutral or non-distressing responses
(ND). PTSD symptomatology was found in the distressed
group: changes in male-female relationships, suppression of
feelings/thoughts about the abortion, reactions to catalytic events
that aroused thoughts/feelings about the abortion, trying to get
pregnant again, becoming promiscuous, and avoiding reminders of
babies. More than two out of three women in Group D were
distinguished by reports of “suppression” or “denial” of
parts of the abortion experience or negative emotional reactions to
it. Additionally, women in the distressed group were more than twice
as likely to report abortion trauma related symptoms on the Impact
of Event Scale than those in the non-distressed group
(Congleton
and Calhoun 1993)
.
In this same study, women who identified themselves as distressed
postabortion indicated feeling: a sense of loss/emptiness
(48%); shock/detachment (28%); anger toward partner/others (24%);
depression (20%); loneliness, betrayal, loss of self-worth, and
relief (16%); guilt and sorrow (12%); confusion (8%); fear of dying
and suicidal thoughts (4%).
Interestingly, in the
group of women who elected abortion and did not believe they were
distressed, 20% had symptoms of depression, an equivalent percentage
experienced by the distressed group.
The authors concluded:
(1) for some women, abortion is a “critical event” which
produces high levels of psychological distress;
(2) informed consent should ensure accurate information is conveyed
about physical pain and possible negative and positive emotional
reactions; and
(3) when dealing with depression among women, exploring reproductive
history for unresolved emotional reactions to pregnancy termination
may prove beneficial.
In a large scale prospective cohort study (N=13,261, of whom 6410
experienced a pregnancy termination) conducted in the United
Kingdom, Gilchrist et al.
(1995)
found
evidence of the traumagenic nature of abortion when examining
relative risks of suicidal behavior in women who had previously
terminated their pregnancy, and who had no prior history of
psychiatric illness. A recent study in Finland of all
deaths of women of childbearing age concluded: “Our data clearly
show, however, that women who have experienced an abortion have an
increased risk of suicide which should be taken into account in the
prevention of such deaths”
(Gissler,
Hemminki and Lönnqvist 1996:8).
A recent Swedish study examined emotional distress (ranging from 1
month to 12 months follow-up) after abortion at a university
hospital. Risk factors identified were: living alone, poor emotional
support from family and friends, adverse postabortion change in
relations with partner, underlying ambivalence or adverse attitude
to abortion, and being actively religious. The
researchers concluded: “Thus, 50-60% of women undergoing induced
abortion experienced some measure of emotional distress, classified
as severe in 30% of cases.”
(Soderberg,
Janzon & Sjoberg, 1998:173)
In a study just published, Reardon & Ney
(2000)
examined
the mental health risks of abortion relating to subsequent substance
abuse. They found that women who aborted a first pregnancy were five
times more likely to report subsequent substance abuse than women
who carried to term, and they were four times more likely to report
substance abuse compared to those who suffered a natural loss of
their first pregnancy due to miscarriage, ectopic pregnancy or
stillbirth.
Rue
(2001)
applied a trauma sensitive perspective to the understanding of how
women coped with pregnancy losses, particularly induced
abortion. He conducted a transnational retrospective
descriptive study of 765 women in the United States and
Russia. In this study, the average number of years since
the abortion was 11 years for American women and 6 years for Russian
women. Similar to preceding studies, the most common
positive emotional outcome for women in both countries was relief
with 11% of U.S. women attributing this positive feeling to their
abortion compared to 8% in Russia. In the U.S. sample, 58% of
women who aborted experienced 6-10 posttraumatic stress disorder
symptoms following the abortion, compared to 12% in the Russian
sample. Overall, the findings indicated that women in the U.S.
sample were more likely to experience posttraumatic stress related
symptoms following their abortion than Russian
women. Using Pearlman’s traumatic stress scale (TSI),
Russian women who obtained an abortion had higher mean total TSI
scores than U.S. women (276 vs. 260), indicating considerable
disruption of cognitive schemas.
Cougle, Reardon & Coleman
(2001)
employed the National Longitudinal Survey of Youth (NLSY) a general
purpose study which has interviewed 6283 women since
1979. They found using standardized assessments: “Compared
to post-childbirth women, aborting women (n=735) were found to have
significantly higher depression scores as measured an average of 10
years after their pregnancy outcome. Controlling for age,
total family income, and locus of control scores prior to the first
pregnancy event, post-abortive women were found to be 41% more
likely than non-aborting women to score in the ‘high risk’ range
for clinical depression. In response to a self-assessment
question, aborting women were 73% more likely to complain of ‘depression,
excessive worry, or nervous trouble of any kind’ an average of 17
years postabortion.’”
And finally, in the first record linkage study conducted in the U.S.
on 173,279 low income women who had aborted, Reardon et
al.
(2001)
found the following: “Compared to women who delivered, those who
aborted had a significantly higher age adjusted risk of dying during
the subsequent eight years from suicide (2.54), accidents (1.82),
and all causes (1.62). Higher suicide rates were most pronounced in
the first four years. Notably, the average annual suicide rates per
100,000 in our sample, 3.0 for delivering women and 7.8 for
aborting women, bracketed the national average suicide rate of 5.2
for women ages 15-44.” In addition to the above, there are a
number of reviews of the literature on postabortion sequelae that
are instructive
(Speckhard
& Rue, 1992; Rue, 1995; Speckard, 1997; Ney & Wickett, 1989;
and Angelo, 1992).
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A
Spirituality of Trauma
I
have plummeted into a darkness where there seems to be no God,
only
pain and loss - and, surprisingly, I have found that
something
beautiful is happening, which as yet I cannot identify.
Oddly
enough, there is something beautiful about working with trauma in my
life... What on earth could be good about working with violence and
trauma? Can anything good come from trauma?
Trauma
is any experience that overwhelms a person’s normal coping
mechanisms. It is what the victim does with trauma that liberates or
destroys. Trauma has taken me on a faith journey and has brought me
into a deeper intimacy with myself, others and God. Before coming
into therapy for post-traumatic stress disorder, I thought I was
healthy, functional and relational. I did not realize how sick and
anemic my spirit was. I had armored myself against life. This kept
me away from my soul, spirit and essence - the very way of being
known.
In
trauma therapy, many of my defenses have cracked, permitting me to
begin finding the woman God always intended me to be. The joy of
healing is finding this essence within and relating to others
through it. Relationships flow with greater ease.
Because
I have seen myself,
I
am less fearful to be known by others;
relationships
are thus more intimate and less superficial.
When
you have been touched by trauma, you are never the same. Someone who
has been demolished by trauma has the unique opportunity to allow
the hand of God to refashion him or her, like living stones being
built into a spiritual house.
Therapy
has helped me to reclaim my breath and to once again breathe...When
you have been traumatised, you lose your breath and your spirit. The
spirit is known as "Ruha", the breath of life. When
someone is traumatized, the breath and the spirit are cut off.
Recovery from trauma then, is also about recovery of the wounded
spirit within us.
I
have walked in the valley of denial, powerlessness, lack of trust,
terror, shame, pain, grief and isolation. The gift received in
darkness has been accepting my vulnerability and my limitations and
finding the wonders of my humanity... The call of today is to
transform our pain istead of ignoring it.
The
process of unmasking my hidden trauma has removed the coverings that
I had allowed to hide the real me... I have learned that the way of
healing and reconciliation is to travel into the darkness of my own
woundedness. It has been a journey into nothingness, pregnant with
fullness. In this journey, I have heard for the first time a call to
live, not just survive - a call to compassion and a call to
companionship with others on the journey.
JOURNEY
THROUGH HEALING
The
journey of grieving and sorrow is a journey into acceptance of who
you are now and how trauma has affected you. New shoots will spring
up from the trauma wound.
The
goal, in the journey through healing, is to regenerate life. This is
done by working through the steps of denial, powerlessness, trust
and safety, shame, grief, emptiness and new relationships.
I
believe that God calls us to wholeness in life. We are called out of
isolation and into intimacy - from being bound in shame to being
known as friend. I never imagined that pain could be so painful. Yet
my wound has now turned into a great blessing.
Excerpts
from the article of the same name written by Sister Jo Wardhaugh,
FMSA, a missionary to Uganda and Kenya in recent years.
(The
article appeared in Human Development, Vol21, No.3, Fall 2000)
I
AM A FEMINIST AND...
I
HAVE BEEN FAILED BY FEMINISM
-
by Marguerite
The
shame is all-consuming. Yet, I am not a religious person. I believe
that women have the ‘right’ to have an abortion. That does not
stop me feeling like a murderer for terminating my child. I did not
terminate a ‘bunch of cells’ but a real human being.
And
yet, "I do not expect to be shamed by my community. This is not
an issue for the moral majority.
I have fought the stigma of the
majority - on both sides - who talk of my abortion as if it is a ‘right’
or a ‘wrong’. These are simplistic terms which cannot convey
what it means to me: a regret and a grief."….
"Abortion
is an issue which every woman approaches differently. I have spoken
to women who have terminated and who have never looked back. This is
not how it is with me. I have looked back and am constantly
remembering and grieving.
I
grieve and see no end to the grief because what I did, rightly or
wrongly, was irreversibly and irrevocably permanent. Do you see? I
cannot, for all the riches in the world, get my child back?"
I am
grateful for the opportunity given to me to put words to my grief
and am glad that I saw Reist’s article in the paper rather than
receiving a tick-the-box survey - did you make the right decision or
not? - because that would have been too simplistic.
What
saddens me most is this: despite my efforts and the efforts of many
women who participated in Reist’s ground-breaking and
compassionate book - none of us have been heard.
The
abortion debate has simply continued in its age-old unenlightened
way through the obliteration of the voices of those who sought to
give a human face to the debate.
The
mechanism for this obliteration is a common one - blame the
"victim". Or, rather, label the speaker as a
"victim" first, and through this ungracious process of
impeachment, discredit the message they have to give.
In
this sense and only in this sense, Reist’s book is an unmitigated
failure. She did not achieve what she set out to achieve - which was
to give voice to women who are suffering from post-abortion grief.
However, in Reist’s favour, it ought to be said that giving a
voice to people is bound to fail when those voices fall on deaf
ears.And they are deaf ears.
What
is most telling about the "academic" response to this book
is that, instead of concentrating on what is being said by the
contributors, reviewers2 choose to impeach Reist herself in an
attempt to discredit her views as well. To what end?
When
feminism loses sight of the women it seeks to represent, it has
failed. I am a feminist and I have been let down. Paradoxically, I
have no thanks to give to "pro-choicers" because they
systematically refuse to hear what it is women who suffer
post-abortion grief have to say.
Notes:
1.
‘Marguerite’ is the pseudonym used by the author in the book
Giving Sorrow Words, written and compiled by Melinda Tankard-Reist,
Australia.
2.
‘Reviewers’ here refers to reviewers in Australia such as
feature in Opinion.
No
matter how or when an abortion happens -
grief
signifies the loss
The
controversial abortifacient pill RU486 is hitting New Zealand.
What
are the implications for women who take this pill likely to be?
RU486, generic name Mifepristone, is an artifical steroid
developed in France in the early 1980’s, and it works by
counteracting the action of progesterone in a normal pregnancy.
Progesterone relays the signal to the body that there is a growing
baby implanted in the uterine wall and needing nourishment. RU486
effectively blocks that signal by taking over progesterone’s
chemical binding sites, so that the body no longer gets the signal
that the woman is still pregnant. RU486 shuts down the process, so
the developing baby eventually starves and/or suffocates to death.
The introduction of the abortifacient RU486 may ease and increase
abortion access in New Zealand, but it will mean general
practitioners need to be involved in what can become a
time-consuming regimen, there may be need for additional patient
counselling, heightened costs and the requirement of additional
equipment.
Evidence from pharmaceutical literature and the experiences of
women already subjected to its use, demonstrate that this pill may
not be as harmless as it is purported to be. On the surface it would
appear abortion brought about by the use of such a pill may be
experienced as less intrusive or invasive, less exposing and less of
a violation for women, but there are still physical and emotional
and other drawbacks with which to contend.
The public may come to view RU486 like a ‘miracle pill’ -
imagine being pregnant, swallowing a pill, and hey presto not being
pregnant any longer! The process however is often more cumbersome
and challenging, and may involve longer, drawn-out, multi-drug,
multiple visits to the doctor and take weeks to complete.
The first visit and medical exam is used to date her pregnancy to
decide if the chemical method would work, and to determine whether
or not she has any physical conditions that prohibit using the
abortifacient tablet. Contraindications for use, or possible side
effects as outlined in pharmaceutical guidelines, need to be
vigilantly heeded and monitored by GPs lest women put themselves at
risk of additional harm. Some women may experience severe pain if
contractions are lengthy and majorly strong through the abortion
process. Others may experience nausea and diarrhoea as side effects.
If the pregnant woman is given the RU486 there and then, over the
next 48 hours the RU486 works on her reproductive systems to shut
down the life-support system for the developing child. Returning for
her second visit two days later, the woman receives a prostaglandin,
usually Misoprostol, to stimulate uterine contractions to expel the
then dead baby. She may need to remain at the consulting rooms as
the abortion begins.
Whilst many women abort during this second visit, numbers abort
later, at home or work... The passing of their unborn child, whole
or in parts, particularly if ‘seen’ can be upsetting for some
women. The often longer periods of bleeding which could extend up to
six weeks and the sometimes unpredicatability of the timing of the
abortion can be problematic and distressing for women.
A follow up visit is usual two weeks or so from the first visit
to determine if the abortion is complete or not. If the abortion is
incomplete, a woman may require surgical dilatation and curettage to
complete the process.
Women who miss their second or third visits may mistakenly
believe they have aborted when they experience bleeding. If the baby
dies but is not expelled there could be serious health consequences
for the mother. If the baby survives, his or her development could
be affected by the drugs.
Sometimes this method of procuring an abortion gives women the
illusion that an abortion has not taken place at all. A woman needs
to be able to make a free and fully informed choice and this may
mean she needs some counselling to fully understand what is involved
and explore what it means and what it will mean for her to have an
abortion and have it like this.
Counselling prior to medical abortion also necessitates
determining whether the woman is suitable for the method, whether
she is responsible enough to return for the necessary visits,
whether she is likely to report complications promptly and whether
she has an adequate support systems, especially in case there is an
emergency.
Whether an abortion is performed surgically by suction curettage
or effected through the medical RU486 intervention, the effects of
the resultant termination of a pregnancy and what it ultimately
means for a woman may be similar. For some women who do not view the
developing foetus as a ‘baby’ and deny any attachment to their
offspring, there may be little visible impact initially or over
time, though for many women the effects may only surface later, with
future pregnancies, if a woman has later gynaecological problems,
mid or other life crises such as death of a loved one or some other
significant loss or stressor.
Feelings of guilt following surgical abortion are not uncommon
and it is known through experiences of women in other countries,
that feelings of guilt associated with the use of RU486 can be
heightened, as the element of self-responsibility is often felt to
be greater with the use of the tablet. A woman may feel more
instrumental in the termination of her pregnancy and death of her
baby. Those for whom abortion goes against their own moral code may
experience similar degrees of post-abortion stress whatever method
is used.
Women’s upset and anger over unwanted pregnancies and the
situations they find themselves in may be little different in either
case - they may feel equally as unsupported in either situation and
still face the dilemma, whether to continue with the pregnancy and
keep the baby or give him/her up for adoption, or to abort. "To
abort or not to abort?" is most often the question they face in
the moment of crisis. It is most often the women themselves who are
forced to "deal with it and to it" one way or another, as
well as cope with adverse reactions.
The hurt or anger a woman may experience following an abortion or
induced miscarriage, by whatever means and at whatever stage of
gestational development of the baby, may be turned inward and
manifest physically and emotionally in symptoms such as headaches,
insomnia, gastrointestinal disturbances, fatigue, alcohol abuse,
eating disorders, depression, which if severe may lead to suicidal
ideation or impulses... Or else the anger may be projected outwards
to those involved in the abortion decision or process, or others
close to the person and relationships may suffer.
Other aspects of post-abortion stress may manifest just the same
with the use of the tablet RU486. An abortion is an abortion is an
abortion is an abortion... Essentially the abortion experience is a
death experience but for many women this is often not realised until
the grief is experienced and realised some time soon or much later
after the event - they wonder why the sadness, why the tears, why
the anger, why the feelings of numbness or emptiness...?
Although numbers of women may "appear to function
normally" afterwards many become adept at not letting the pain
show, and hiding from their grief or pushing it down. Part of this
may be due to the fact that
in our society grief following
abortion is disenfranchised.
Society does not yet fully
recognise, openly acknowledge or accept as real post-abortion grief
and how it affects women, men and families.
Post-abortion
grief is real for numbers of women who have abortions each year, and
predictably will be also for those who undertake the procedure
medically using RU486.
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